I must be strong

Category: Divorce

  • November 6 – Discussing separation

    So it’s been a little while since we’ve discussed the details of our divorce. I’m trying my best to work things out peacefully, for everyone’s benefit. Even thought disclosing the truth would be appealing, but I won’t gain much from that. After sending the kids to sleepover at the grandparent’s place, I went back home…

  • August 30 – Bracelet

    Women love jewelries. My wife is no exception. Its true that I haven’t  offered her a jewelry in a long time aside from our wedding ring which costed way too much for what it is. I do regularly offer her flowers, treats at the restaurant or some occasional pastries. Well for her birthday she told…

  • August 22 – Giving up

    I am giving up. This situation is frustrating and the lack of respect on her part has pushed me to give up on the relationship. It’s very unfortunate, for the kids, our families and ourselves. All I know is that I gave it my all and I really tried to stick the pieces back together,…

  • August 19 – 3 months discussion

    So this is it. It’s been 3 months that I have confronted her about being unfaithful. I know she is. I mean we’ve been together for 15 years, married for 14, there are some obvious signs I can pick up. The problem is, these are just signs, and unlike in the movies where people get…

  • June 24 – Discussion with family

    Today we had a BBQ with the family. As the evening went on, one of my aunt came and sat down with me. She’s very close with my wife. I know my wife and her often talk about everything and anything as they get along very well. I guess my depression is showing as she…

  • June 12 – Staying for the kids or divorcing

    We had a big talk this morning. I must say that for now, we’re still talking like adults. But things can escalate very quickly. If I ever lose it then it’s over. I’m doing my best, but it is hard, really hard. So basically we came to the same conclusion. We don’t want to break…

  • June 2nd – Still looking for a psychologist

    So it’s been two weeks now that I’m in this state. I can’t sleep or when I do I wake up every 2 hours because there’s so much going on in my mind. I have never suffered of insomnia in my life and this really does have a huge impact on me. Mentally and physically.…

  • May 30 – More than friends ?

    The current situation started because I suspected my wife of having an affair. When I confronted her about that, somehow the discussion turned against me and all my questions turned against me. I am so willing to believe her despite the fact that a lot of my questioning remained uncleared or unanswered. I really do…

  • May 24 – Feeling destroyed

    My posts are depressing I know, but that’s the state I’m in. I’m completely destroyed. I don’t know what to do, I have lost all motivation. After almost 15 years of marriage, two kids and all of a sudden it’s all gone. That’s harsh.    I am not sure about the motivation under this, but…

  • May 19th – The day my world fell apart

    On this very afternoon, my whole world fell apart. I had a talk with my wife regarding trust issues. I suspected a third party person to be involved in her life. I confronted her and without getting a clear answer, our relationship as a couple ended abruptly that night. As much as I want to…